The "CAUSE" Of Good and Bad..!
A month ago, i had my selection trials for World University games to be held at Korea. It was a great chance for me to explore more about my sport,meet new people and most importantly ,a chance to represent my county.
I was very excited and enthusiastic on one side but at back of my mind i had a doubt, a doubt that could destroy everything i planned for within a second.I knew that if i give more attention to that particular thought stuck in my mind then, i will end up in worse conditions. I kept my self strong and positive but ended up in self destruction.
I ended up ruining my trials and i knew the 'cause'.
Self doubt ,was the cause. It made me imagine the worst of worst.
I had all the self doubting thoughts in my mind but i kept them aloof ,stopped them from make me weak, scolded them and told them to shut up because they always had something painful ,something i was not ready to accept easily.
The moment that i lived was as if it was an end to something i never expected to go away from me ,my all the efforts were seeming to be wasted .
What was scaring me was 'what will people say' what will i tell to my parents , what should i do to make it okay. It is easy to say that people should never be considered important and considering their opinions should not be something to focus upon.
But i believe in one thing that, if we are part of this world, the people around us will always be part of our growing process.They are the medium that will help us improve and become better . So there ideas, views for us are also important to be considered but, up to a certain limit.
So, after few days on one fine day after all the crying and cribbing i was thinking by myself about what happened and i randomly picked up a book by Jack Can field called 'How to get from where you are to where you want to be'. When i started reading it, everything he wrote was difficult to understand because all that he said seemed to be good at reading but applying it in real life was a big challenge.
He spoke of the cause, the real cause and as i read further and further i felt as if the book is contradicting my own beliefs and i wasn't happy with that.
I was actually not happy breaking those old beliefs of mine.
So, after reading few more pages i starting thinking that the writer of this book just doesn't know my part of life and what he has written is only applicable to some people but not to me!
After finishing off my first chapter i thought of not reading it further . Not because it seemed useless to me,but , it was because i could not accept the truth i was running from . He wrote truth . He had logic behind every fact he wrote. It was one of the most amazing self help book i have ever picked up .
So i started reading it . I got back to it again and again and it reminded me of what i always forgot.
So, the only purpose to share my experience with you holds three facts that are must to learn!
Firstly, Life is crazy and we are fools!This is because we try and strive believing that things can always land up our way!
Though it can be true sometimes but mostly there is an alternative to our choice which we never consider or maybe never think of because we are so much engrossed with ample of issues that can wait in order to be manifested.
So, aim,believe, strive,understand and remember what ever is happening or happens to you has a 'cause' and the biggest cause is you!
you are the creator and the destroyer but you can always create better by keeping the alternatives in mind because they support you , keep you strong and help you keeping up your faith. When something comes to an end then believe that an alternative to it will mark a new beginning and then, start working over the alternative instead of messing up with thought of failure ,regret and pain.
So, don't let life fool you, be the master of your choices.
Secondly, Take fears as your goal!
First and foremost feeling that dominates human mind is fear. The very first goal of yours should be to eliminate it. Take your fear and yourself as opponents .Don't let it make its score, your know its weakness and strengths .Work over it.
Thirdly, Nothing can ever make you stronger than a silent prayer to God!
Our world is assumed to be governed and ruled by humans but the fact is that the creator of the universe is beyond the funds of science .A silent prayer to almighty boosts our inner strength and we should believe that every thing around us is working in harmony to help us to fulfill our desires.
So, Keep your nerves calm , let the life flow.... and don't try to act smart because everything has its own pace. Have patience , keep working and let yourself be free to alternatives in life so that you don't become the 'Cause' of anything negative in your life rather a 'Reason' for eliminating the cause that holds you back!.
